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May

No article this week, just something to think about…

This week I have been moved by the song “The Motions” by Matthew West. It really had me thinking about my own life and business and how I have been going through the motions. I have been struggling a lot lately knowing something needs to change, yet not really knowing what or how and so I just keep going, keep trying.

I started researching the song and found the story to be so inspiring. Although Matthew wrote the song prior to losing his voice for two months, facing uncertainty he discovered the true meaning of the words. Sometimes we have to go through “stuff” to fully understand. In case you are curious, here is the video montage and song.

The words he wrote on the wipe erase board “I don’t want to let people down, I’m always doing something. or should I say, chasing something…” really spoke to my heart. I don’t want to let people down. I have to always be doing something, it helps me think. I can’t just sit and think. I have to be moving, whether it is walking, running or even doing mundane chores.

With my business I have been going through the motions as well. Doing what needs to get done, but never getting to the building or promoting part. I’m not making client attraction a priority. How about you? Are you making client attraction a priority or just going through the motions of what needs to get done each day?

I talked it over with my husband and he feels I put too much pressure on myself. My daily tasks for my business requires some sort of creativity (scrapbooking, writing articles, etc.) every day. He says trying to be that creative every day is sapping the well dry. Could he be right? I never thought about it this way. I thought perhaps I’m just not that good of a writer, or too much of a perfectionist, worried it’s not good enough.

One thing I’ve done this past week is to find a mentor, someone who has been there, who understands and can guide me through. It is hard for me to ask for and accept help, but everyone needs help. Just admitting that is huge. After talking to my mentor last week, I already feel everything is going to be just fine. The pressures I put on myself will subside, tasks will get done and really, I’m doing just fine. I had a wonderful weekend with family and friends, full of laughter and relaxation. And now this week I’m ready to tackle the world! :)

Anyway, something for you to think about. Are you going through the motions with your scrapbook business?

Category : Motivation/Success

Comments

Dianne May 26, 2009

I’m not just going through the motions with scrapbooking but with my whole life. My mother and uncle are elderly and demanding a lot of time (I’m not saying they aren’t owed the time…it’s just a fact that they need a lot of care right now), and I lost my job so my finances are shaky. I feel as if my entire world has closed in on me and I don’t have any place to turn. I watched the video and burst into tears. Thank you for sharing. I think that’s a message a lot of us need right now.

Dawn May 27, 2009

Dianne,

Thank you for your comment! One thing I have learned this past week is to “enjoy the journey!” Doesn’t sound too easy, but it is soo worth it. We go through different seasons in life and right now you are in the “elderly care season”. Enjoy this time, scrapbook for stress relief not to add to it, and things will work out when you focus. I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Sunday May 29, 2009

I know exactly how you feel with regard to feeling overwhelmed! I too have felt at the point of asking “what’s it all for” with regard to trying to set up an internet business. But I have spent too long trying to give up, however I still need to be reminded! My hubby and mum help with that a bit, but I am yet to have a mentor with which I can discuss my specific circumstances. Still onward and upward, and thank you for posting this article, a bit of a “kindred spirit” thing going on!
Sundy

Sunday May 29, 2009

Oops, can’t even spell my name correctly – it must be bad! LOL
Sunday

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